“If we could go back and do our wedding over, we would do things differently…”
We hear this so often from couples reflecting on their big day! While weddings are filled with love and unforgettable moments, there are always a few things couples wish they had known ahead of time.
If you’re in the midst of planning (or helping a friend who is), take note of these seven common wedding day regrets—so you can enjoy your celebration without any “should’ve, would’ve, could’ve” moments.
1. Not Hiring a Videographer
“We wish we could relive the day and see the moments we missed.”
Photos are beautiful, but video captures movement, sound, and emotion—like your vows, speeches, and that tear-jerking first look. Many couples deeply regret not investing in a videographer to bring their memories to life.
2. Trying to Please Everyone Else
“We made choices based on what others wanted, not what felt right to us.”
From the guest list to the ceremony style to who gives a speech—many couples end up compromising too much and later wish they had stayed true to their vision.
3. Not Eating (or Enjoying) the Food
“We barely had a bite—and we paid so much for it!”
Between greeting guests, dancing, and keeping up with the schedule, couples often forget to sit down and enjoy the meal they carefully chose. Make time to savor your wedding feast!
4. Letting Stress Overshadow the Day
“I spent too much time worrying instead of being present.”
From timelines to table settings, it’s easy to get wrapped up in the little details. Many couples wish they had trusted the process, let go of perfection, and simply soaked up the joy of the moment.
5. Spending Too Much (or Too Little) in the Wrong Places
“We splurged on the wrong things and cut back where it mattered.”
Regrets often come from over-investing in things guests barely notice (like extravagant favors) and under-investing in what truly impacts the experience—like comfort, ambiance, or entertainment.
6. Not Having a Coordinator to Run the Day
“I spent the whole day managing things instead of just enjoying it.”
Even if you’re a DIY couple or have a planner leading up to the wedding, not having someone to manage the schedule, vendors, and unexpected hiccups on the day can be a major stressor. A dedicated day-of coordinator is worth every cent!
7. No Plan B for Weather Situations
“We didn’t think it would rain… and then it poured.”
Whether it’s unexpected heat, wind, or rain, not having a backup plan can turn dream moments into stressful ones—especially for outdoor ceremonies or photos. Always have a weather contingency plan in place.
At The Knoll, we’ve seen firsthand how small decisions can make a big difference in your wedding experience. With stunning indoor and outdoor spaces, expert coordination, and a setting designed for seamless celebrations, we help ensure that your wedding day is filled with joy—not regrets.
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